ASK A PRIEST
QUESTIONS AND
ANSWERS
NOVEMBER
2010
FATHER WILLIAM G. MENZEL
FATHER KEVIN BATES,
SM
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
FATHER BILL
Our bible readings in Church emphasize
the poor and needy shall be first.
We are not poor so my child asked me how will we get to heaven?" -
Erik
Father
Bill:
My daughter
came to me asking how we are ever going to get to heaven since
we are not poor. The readings lately have emphasized being
humble and the poor and needy shall be first. We have money but
are not by any means rich. How do I approach this question with
her? - Erik
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Dear Erik,
Your
daughter is very perceptive to be asking you about this. She is
obviously listening carefully to the words of scripture and is
picking up on a theme that is found often in both the Old and
New Testaments. There we are constantly challenged to be aware
of the plight of the poor.
Your
question implies that I should keep my answer simple, so that a
child can easily understand. With that in mind, I would start by
assuring your daughter that you don’t have to be poor to get to
heaven. Jesus never says that, nor does such a statement occur
anywhere else in the Bible.
However—and
this is a big however—there are lots of places in the Bible
where it is made very clear that we must care for the poor.
Those who have must share with those who have not. If we love
our possessions more than we love God or other people, then we
have chosen a false god. When it comes to getting into heaven,
that is not a good thing!
Sharing
what we have with others doesn’t mean that we have to go
overboard. It is true that there are some people who give up
everything to serve the poor. Many of the saints have done this.
That doesn’t mean we all have to. But it definitely does mean
that we have to be willing to make sacrifices when we know there
are others in need.
Finally, in
his Sermon on the Mount Jesus said, “Blessed are the poor in
spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” This is important,
so what does it mean to be “poor in spirit”? Well, it doesn’t
mean that we have to be poor, or that only the poor will go to
heaven. What it does mean is what I said already: we cannot love
our possessions more than we love God or other people. It means
we must be grateful for what we have and not be greedy for more,
more, more. It also means that we must be people who know that
we need God, and that we must be good stewards of what God has
given us.
I hope this
helps you answer your daughter’s question, Erik.
Thanks for
asking, and may God bless you. -
Father
Bill
"I want to
be Catholic but can you tell me if judgment will come
when Christ returns, and how are the Saints in heaven now?" -
Steven
Father
Bill:
I am
considering becoming a Catholic and my research begs a
question: With respect to Saints they are required to perform a
miracle after death if I understand correctly. Is one's
judgment day on the day one dies? Does Gabriel's horn sound for
each individual on that day-or is there one judgment day when
Christ returns. If so, how is it said the Saints are in heaven
now? Very confusing. - Steven
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Dear
Steven,
I think
your question really boils down to this: do people who have died
and are destined for heaven have to wait until the second coming
of Jesus?
The answer
to that is: No.
The
traditional teaching of the Catholic Church, which can be found
in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, is that there
are two judgments. The particular judgment happens
at the moment of death, at which point, the Catechism
says, “Each man receives his eternal retribution.” If the
deceased is found worthy at this particular (or personal)
judgment, then he or she enters into the realm of the blessed.
(At this point it may help to remember what Jesus said to one of
the criminals who was crucified near him: “This day you
will be with me in Paradise.”)
The
general (or last) judgment will occur at the time of
Jesus’ second coming. In this judgment the justice of God will
be manifest as all the dead are called forth from their graves.
Christ in His glory will separate the peoples one from another,
as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats (see Matthew
25).
Do I think
this somewhat confusing? Yes, and I think there are two reasons
for my confusion. One reason is that my mind simply cannot wrap
itself around all of the wonders of God and His creation. The
other reason is that death is the gateway between a world of
limits (like time and space) into a world with no limits. Once
we have passed through that gateway, time has no meaning. Life
beyond this is an eternal now.
These
teachings about the judgment times that come to us through
scripture and the traditions of the Church are expressed in
metaphors, and metaphors can never exhaust the reality.
Sometimes we just have to live with the limited understanding
afforded us by metaphor and be grateful that God has given
tantalizing glimpses into what lies beyond this universe that is
our current home.
Thanks for
asking, and may God bless you. -
Father
Bill
"What is
your interpretation of Revelations 4: 4-11?" Arturo
Father Bill:
I was reading through Revelations and a few verses stood out to
me: Revelations 4:4-11. Who are the 24 elderly mentioned here
and does this imply that only 24 people will be saved? Also what
is your interpretation of the four beings mentioned? - Arturo
Dear Arturo,
Before moving on to my answer,
I’d like to address a couple of common misunderstandings that
are present in your question. One is the title of the last
book of our Christian bible: it is the Book of Revelation, not
Revelations. The other is the word “elder” that is found
fairly often in the New Testament. “Elder” does not mean
“elderly”. It is an English translation of the Greek word
“presbyteros”, and it refers specifically to those who were the
leaders of the early Christian communities. Perhaps some
of them were indeed elderly, but being an elder did not
necessarily imply old age. The term “elder” is still
commonly used in some Christian denominations to this day, and
even in our Catholic Church the priests of a diocese are often
referred to as the “presbyterate”. In fact, the word
“priest” comes from the Greek word “presbyteros”.
In answering your question, I
first would like to make it very clear that I lay no claims to
being a scripture scholar. As a priest, I have spent time
studying the bible, and I have the privilege of preaching from
the scriptures on almost a daily basis. I am inspired,
challenged, and sometimes puzzled by what I read in the bible.
It truly is a great treasure, a wonderful gift from God to us.
The Book of Revelation belongs
to a biblical style that is called “apocalyptic literature”.
There are examples of this throughout the bible, such as in the
books of the prophets Ezekiel and Daniel in the Old Testament.
Apocalyptic literature is full of imagery, symbolism and
metaphor, and the visionary of the Book of Revelation borrowed
freely from some of the Old Testament content.
Interpretation of apocalyptic literature is not for us
amateurs—and sometimes not even for the professional scripture
scholars. Some of the references may be pretty obvious,
but many are obscure, and scripture scholars do not always agree
on what they mean.
The fourth chapter of the Book
of Revelation that you are inquiring about describes the
so-called “heavenly liturgy”, the joyful, enthusiastic, grateful
worship before the throne of God the Creator. The
twenty-four elders present here definitely do not imply
that only twenty-four people will be saved.
Interpretations vary as to who or what these elders represent.
It could be the twelve tribes of Israel and the twelve apostles;
it could be the prophets of Israel; it could represent the old
and new Israel—or something else. There is no consistent
agreement among scripture scholars.
Likewise with the four beings
mentioned in these verses. There are many interpretations
as to what they represent. In appearance they resemble a
lion, a calf (often translated ox), a man and an eagle.
These faces are also found in the Book of the Prophet Ezekiel.
In Revelation they may represent the four substances or elements
into which the ancients categorized the world: earth, air, fire
and water. Maybe they symbolize, as is noted in the
commentary of the New American Bible, all that “is noblest,
strongest, wisest, and swiftest in creation.
Since even the greatest
scripture scholars tread carefully when trying to explain or
interpret the Book of Revelation, I think, Arturo, that you and
I are wise not to try to read too much into the details. I
think we are much better off reading this book of the bible in
the same way that we might view a complex work of art. By
this I mean we should admire the beauty of the work as a whole
and not get mired down turning it into some kind of a puzzle.
The soaring visions of Revelation are, I’m convinced, one of the
ways that God has chosen to help us understand that even here on
earth our lives are touched by divine realities, and that life
after death is a wonder far beyond anything we can comprehend
now.
It’s great to know that you are
so interested in the scripture, Arturo. May the Holy
Spirit guide you and inspire you as you prayerfully continue
your inquiry.
-
Father
Bill
FATHER KEVIN
BATES, SM
"Is it wrong to pray
for souls in Hell? Is this offensive to God? - Jina
Father Kevin:
Today being All Souls Day, I'm wondering if it is wrong to pray for
souls in hell? I can't imagine another human being in more need of
prayers than that of a soul separated from God. Is that questioning
God's perfect judgment? Would it offend Him? - Jina
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HI Jina,
What an interesting question. Of course we can pray for anyone we
like. If there is anyone in hell, then of course they are
eternally separated from God’s presence. By definition, hell is the
absence of God’s presence for ever.
Having said that, we don’t know if anyone is there in hell at all!
The Church has never, and can never declare that anyone has gone to
hell, as this is a matter between each person and God. Since we are
all made for communion with God, it is entirely possible that God
helps a person at the end of their journey here to find some
repentance in their heart. It’s a situation about which we are in
no position to judge.
By all means pray for them if there are any people in that state.
It would be an act of real kindness on your part.
Good wishes.
-
Father Kevin
My Baptist husband
won't allow me to baptize our baby Catholic.
What can I do or say to change this?" - Ashley
Father Kevin:
My husband is Baptist and I was raised and am a practicing Catholic.
I have completed all the Sacraments up until marriage of course. We
just had a baby girl and my husband completely objects to baptizing
her as an infant. He claims to be the spiritual leader of the house
and we having to follow him. But he has not practiced his faith in
over 15 years and doesn’t plan on it either. What can I do or say
that will help him realize how important our child being baptized in
the Catholic Church is? - Ashley
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Dear Ashley,
You are in a difficult situation indeed. Your husband’s claim to be
the “spiritual head” of the house is a nonsense of course. It is a
line from ST Paul that some people use to subjugate women in
families in all sorts of ways. It’s especially silly, given he has
no intention of acting spiritually. His actions seem to be more
about power than love.
Having said that, the unity of your marriage is a first priority,
and perhaps it is better to wait patiently for a while, and gently
raise the matter now and then until he becomes used to the idea.
You can be sure God won’t turn away from your little girl just
because you haven’t had her baptized. If your local parish runs a
baptism preparation program, maybe you could talk your husband into
attending the program at least so you could have a mature
conversation about the whole matter. If he really loves you and
sees how important it is to you, he might come to the party in time.
I
wish you all the best in this very difficult situation and will keep
you in my prayers. If you would like to talk further more
privately, you can contact me through this site and I will reply
directly.
-
Father Kevin
"How do I explain the
"Vow of Poverty" to my
6th graders? - Patricia
Father Kevin:
I'm an assistant Catechist for 6th graders. Somehow (?) these
questions came up: Does the Pope get paid? Do Cardinals make more
money than Bishops and Priests?
It wasn't very "easy" to explain the vow of poverty. Please help.
God Be With You. – Patty
Hi Patty,
Kids ask the best questions! I will grilled for about 90 minutes
by our local fifth-grade class the other week on the priesthood.
And it was great fun and also very lovely. Regarding these
questions, I’ve no idea if or how the Pope gets paid. As for
Cardinals, bishops and priests, I don’t know either!
The vow of poverty is something that Religious like myself take. I
am a Marist and as a Marist I have that vow. Diocesan priests don’t
have a vow of poverty and have their own money. They usually
received a stipend from their diocese. The money originally comes
from parish collections at Mass. As for Bishops and Cardinals, I
suspect that there are many different ways in which they are
paid/supported financially. As for the Pope, I doubt that he needs
pocket money as the system would carry him along and see to his
needs.
Some Bishops live very simply and humbly. Some live more
extravagantly. There are a great variety of lifestyles among
bishops and cardinals I expect.
Good wishes to you and your inquiring young friends. -
Father Kevin
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"Will St. Patrick
judge the Irish race on the Last Day?"
- Rachel
CatholicView
Staff:
Among the
promises to St. Patrick, it states that Patrick will judge the
entire Irish race on the Last Day. Does it mean anyone with Irish
heritage, or is it more specific? - Rachel
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Dear Rachel:
This is an old legend that promises on the last day that although
Christ will judge all the other nations, it will be St. Patrick
sitting in judgment on the Irish. This is not true. There is only
one judge for mankind, and that is the Lord Jesus Christ Who died
for us all. There will be no respecter of race, for when we stand
before Jesus, we are all the same. No man can judge us
but the one Who paid for our Salvation, I hope this helps.
-CatholicView
Staff
"My
dying sister called out her dead husband's name.
What does this mean?" - Jerry
CatholicView
Staff:
As my eldest
sister was dying, she asked me to sit her up in bed a couple of
hours before she passed on. With lips open a strange voice came out
of her mouth for about 15 to 20 seconds. I have no idea if it was in
tongue, because I have no knowledge of what that sounds like. I
thought maybe Latin, which I do not speak. It was a deep voice. Very
deep. As in a man's voice. And then she laid back down and fell
asleep. Just before she passed away my other sister had relieved me
and experienced the exact same thing. She wasn't going to tell
anybody for fear of being called delusional, or crazy. When I
mentioned my experience sis told us of hers. The last breath she
took, sitting up, arms spread like an eagle, and said "Cliff!" That
was her husband who had passed away 10 years earlier. Could that
have been his voice we heard through our sister? Thanks for any help
on this question. - Jerry
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Jerry:
None of us can
answer this question accurately. CatholicView can only surmise.
Sometimes a person, just before death, sees a loved one who has gone
before them as they themselves are "crossing over". The living can
only speculate what happens in these moments, as in the case of your
beloved sister. Know that she probably had a rapturous moment of
seeing her husband just before she left this earth to be with
the Lord. Hope this helps a bit.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I
have lived on a very destructive path. How do I reinstate
myself to God and the Church?" - Rita
Staff of
CatholicView:
I have been on
a long and destructive path that has separated me from God. My
question is how do I go about returning to the Church? Along with a
multitude of sins I have committed egregious acts of blasphemy and
sacrilege. One of these was Eucharistic desecration, which I
understand is a case in which absolution is reserved to the Holy
See. What do I need to do in order to receive this and is there some
form of documentation that is involved or merely anonymous
confession as with other sins? Also, I formally renounced
Catholicism and joined another religion at one point. Does this form
of apostacy require absolution from anyone besides a parish priest?
- Rita
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Dear Rita:
By writing to us at
A Catholic
View, you have made the first step to full
reconciliation with the Church which is Christ's Body on earth.
Jesus wants you to be part of his sheep and you are now listening to
His Voice to come back to Him who is Life and Salvation Itself.
Heaven is rejoicing to see your heart changing from the negative
person you were to the positive person you will be in Christ Jesus.
Your list of "sins" seem great but Jesus Christ has already died for
ALL of your sins on the cross that Good Friday. So, rejoice in His
forgiveness and go forward to reconcile yourself to the Church. The
sacrament of Penance is sufficient in itself for the forgiveness of
your sins, even the sin of the desecration of the Holy Eucharist.
You are correct, however, that Canon 1367 (Sacramental Law) does
state the following:
Can. 1367 A person who
throws away the consecrated species or takes or retains them for a
sacrilegious purpose incurs a latae sententiae excommunication
reserved to the Apostolic See; moreover, a cleric can be punished
with another penalty, not excluding dismissal from the clerical
state.
I do not know what
you mean by desecration of the Holy Eucharist. The above mentioned
canon refers to an extreme act done publicly. That's why I am
asking that you speak to your parish priest concerning this sin of
desecration. If you are able to do so, I would suggest that you
make an appointment with your parish priest and have a good
confession and receive the absolution offered by the Church. That
confession will reconcile you to the Church and you can begin your
spiritual journey with Christ again. As the saying goes,
Christianity is a faith of an infinite number of second chances!
So, right now, get on your knees, pray for forgiveness, and ask
Jesus Christ into your heart as your Lord and Savior. Give Him
everything. While on your knees, raise your hands in prayer and
receive His mercy. Then, get up and make that call to see your
parish priest and make that confession. With that confession, you
can get back on your spiritual feet and begin to walk in a positive
spirit to salvation itself. I praise God that one of His lost sheep
is finally coming home! God bless and I am excited for you! Keep
your eyes focused on heaven!
-
CatholicView Staff
"I see images of Christ
everywhere. What is He asking
me to do?" - Jim
CatholicView
Staff:
I see images
of Christ on the wall and other places. Should I be scared? What
is he asking me to do? - Jim
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Jim:
Some things are
hard to explain, such as the images of Christ that you describe.
But, I would ask myself if I am living the life that Christ wants
you to live. If you are, then sincerely pray and ask the Lord to
show you what He is asking of you. If you are not living as God
wants, then change it and see what happens.
At
any rate, I suggest you go speak with your parish priest with more
information than you give here. He will be better able to guide you
on this. May the Lord give you the peace that you seek.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I am finishing my Living Trust and
I want to be cremated.
Would I go to hell for being cremated?" - Sarah
CatholicView
Staff:
I am trying to
finish my living trust. I am a Catholic and the rest of my family
is not. We have different views on many things. I want to be
cremated, but my family says that it says in the Bible that you are
to be put in the ground. Would I go to hell for being cremated?
Sarah
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Dear Sarah:
Catholics in
the past were taught that cremation was wrong, that the body would
not be following the teachings of the Catholic Church sin because it
would be, in essence, denying the resurrection of the body. But
Pope Paul VI, after reviewing this ruling lifted the ban on
cremation.
The Church now
allows cremation, providing it is not a denial of faith as to the
ultimate resurrection of the body. The only thing that should be
mentioned here is that the cremated remains receive the same respect
as the decomposed remains. The cremated body must be entombed or
buried with dignity and honor. The Lord knows where you are so
cremation is permitted. Hope this helps.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I committed adultery in my first
marriage and am now remarried. Since
the Church granted an annulment, did I violate
the 6th commandment? - Joel
CatholicView
Staff:
I was married
for seven years, no children. I remarried and my wife joined the
Catholic church. In order for her to join I needed to get an
annulment of my first marriage. During that first I committed
several acts of adultery. Since the Catholic Church accepted my
annulment, did I violate the 6th commandment? - Joel
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Joel:
I am happy to
hear that your wife has joined the Catholic Church. You do not
state whether you ever received forgiveness for committing the sin
of adultery
When you
received your annulment, did you tell your priest about your
adultery and if not, did you go to confession and confess this
sin? If not, you must take care of this. You are not entitled to
receive the sacrament of communion until you do so.
Please talk to
your priest about this. This is important. In the meantime I
strongly suggest that you ask God for forgiveness through prayer
immediately. May God bless your new union.
-
CatholicView Staff
"Why would sex outside marriage be a
sin if couples love
each other?" - Andrea
CatholicView
Staff:
Why would sex
outside marriage be such a sin, even if two people feel so committed
to each other it is as if they were married? Why can't just loving
and respecting your partner be enough? - Andrea
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Dear Andrea:
Marriage is a
sacred offering, a vow two people make to God. If as you say, two
people are committed to each other, they would show that commitment
by taking the responsibility to be married. To live together in the
mortal sin of fornication and shows immaturity and dishonor to the
Lord. True loving and respecting each other is made evident only
when it is sealed by marriage.
What happens
when the sex and respect disappears? Immature couples who
cohabitate because of feelings means they are not willing to pledge
their love to each other. It is a temporary coming together not
bound or blessed by the Church.
Because such a
couple is living in sin, they must not take the sacraments of the
Church. Hope this helps.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I have lost my Catholic faith and
now take a non-denominational
Christian approach to my beliefs. How can I get advice?"
- Karen
CatholicView
Staff:
I was raised
Catholic but have lost my faith over the years and currently take a
non-denominational Christian approach to my beliefs. I recently got
engaged and am trying to decide if I should have a Catholic ceremony
or not. How should I go about getting spiritual advice on this
issue? - Karen
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Dear Karen:
Congratulations
on your engagement!
However I am
saddened that you lost your faith through the years. And you do not
explain what your Christian beliefs are at this time or what your
fiancé believes. Are you stating that you no longer want to be a
Catholic Christian?
If you want to
be married in the Catholic Church, you will need to talk to your
local parish priest about re-instatement within the Church. Discuss
your concerns and He will help you to reaffirm your faith and be
reunited with your Church family . Please call and make an
appointment.
May the Lord
bless and hold you close.
-
CatholicView Staff
"My daughter will be traveling to
California on a school trip and
won't be able to attend mass. Can she be excused?" - Vikki
CatholicView
Staff:
My daughter is
planning on going on a school trip to California and in the process
will be missing mass due to traveling. Without control over the
final plans is she excused from mass? - Vikki
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Dear Vikki:
How
exciting that your daughter will be going on a school trip to
California!
If it is not be possible
for your daughter to attend mass, advise her that in cases where
there will be no availability of Mass, she should take an hour on
the Sabbath in which time she can read her bible and pray. These
actions give honor to God on Sunday. Do not worry for God knows
your daughter's heart and He understands her predicament. Be at
peace.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I think there is something evil in
my house. What should
I do?" - Sarah
CatholicView
Staff:
I think there
is something evil in my house. My daughter and mother have
unexplained marks and my daughter has bad behavior. I've been
hearing strange and scary noises. I don't know what to do. I
don't think it wants us here. - Sarah
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Dear Sarah:
I
am so sorry that you are having problems in your home. I would
suggest that you have your parish priest come to your home and bless
it. This should help. Also, I would suggest that you visit each
room with your bible and say a small prayer such as "Heavenly
Father, please send your peace in this room. Amen." or say one of
your own.
Ask
your priest to set a time when he is available to come. I am sure
he will be happy to assist. May you find the peace you seek.
-
CatholicView Staff
"Can God bring someone back to life
for one night?"
- Elizabeth
CatholicView
Staff:
Can God bring
back someone back to life for one night? - Elizabeth
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Elizabeth:
God is our
Creator. He gave us life and He can take it away. Should He choose
to bring someone back to life, even for a night, He could if it is
His Will to do so.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I was married in a
Mormon temple and am now divorced
after 22 years. My current wife and I want to be Catholic.
Is this possible?" - Steve
CatholicView Staff:
I
am considering taking Catechism and becoming a Catholic. I was
married in a Mormon temple and then divorced after 22 years. Now I
am married for a second time and my wife believes in God but we
belong to no church. Is possible for us to be married in the
Catholic Church in the future and take holy communion? - Steve
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Dear Steve:
Thank you for
your interest in becoming a Catholic Christian. Yes, it is possible
for you and your new wife to become a member of the Catholic
Church.
First things
first, however. You must talk to a parish priest in your area about
getting an annulment from your first wife if needed. In the
meantime, you can begin RCIA (which
stands for the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults).
RCIA
is a class for people who would like to know more about the Roman
Catholic faith.
Once the matter
of annulment is taken care of, you can have this marriage blessed
by the priest or have a formal wedding in the Catholic Church.
Please call a
Catholic Church near you and make an appointment to see a parish
priest. He will talk to you and advise you on the next steps of
becoming Catholic members of the Church.
WELCOME TO OUR CHURCH!
-
CatholicView Staff
"My family has problems with alcohol
abuse. I want to live with
my Grandma but she drinks too. How can I help her if I
do?" - Christine
Hi there!
Thank you in
advance for you time. I have a personal question to ask. I am
currently living at home with my mom, step-dad, uncle, and
siblings. Because of the stress of alcohol abusers in my family, I
have considered living with my grandma; who is soon moving to my
hometown. Though she is able, it would also be nice for me to help
her also with her day to day living. She is also a sad person, and
time to time drinks too. My question is: If I take my grandma
grocery shopping, can I say no to her when she wants me to take her
to the liquor store? I don't want to have anything to do with her
drinking and the harmful effects of it. I want to help her, not
enable her. What should I do? Thank you. Christine
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Christine:
I am sorry to
hear that you are having alcohol abuse problems within your family.
But it is commendable that you want to help your grandmother.
However, if you lived with your grandmother who also drinks, you are
basically facing the same thing.
As you state,
you can refuse to take her to the liquor store, but you will be
subject to her feeling that she is being treated like a child, and
she will resent it.
I would suggest
before you go to live with her you must tell her you will be taking
her shopping at the supermarket, doing your part at home by helping
her as much as possible, but you will not take her to the liquor
store or allow her to buy alcohol at the market. Make this clear
BEFORE you go to live with her. If she accepts this ultimatum, then
you can try to hold her to it. Be straightforward and it will then
be easy to say "No" when she asks you later. If she rejects your
interference, then suggest to her that she might consider going to
Alcohol Anonymous.
To want to help
your grandmother shows you are a good and loving granddaughter. If
at all possible, call your Church and make an appointment to speak
to a priest who will advise you further.
God's blessings to you.
-
CatholicView Staff
"Is a gay, bi, or lesbian,
guaranteed to go to hell?" - Katie
CatholicView
Staff:
Is a gay, bi,
or lesbian, guaranteed to go to hell? Or can they go to heaven just
like everyone else? Katie
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Katie:
Being gay,
bi-sexual, or Lesbian does not guarantee anything. If they do not
act on their feelings in a sexual way, the Catholic Church teaches
they are not sinners. If they believe in God and follow His
teachings, they will receive salvation and will be in Heaven.
The judgment is up to God Who sees all things.
God bless you.-
CatholicView Staff
"Hebrews 6:4-8 worries me. Is there true reassurance of
Salvation?" - Jina
CatholicView
Staff:
Being baptized
Catholic as a baby yet being a sinner my whole life, Hebrews 6:4-8
worries me. Is there true reassurance of salvation? Is a strong
effort really enough if I always seem to fall short?- Jina
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Jina:
The passage you
refer to, Hebrews 6:4-8 reads "For it is impossible to bring back to
repentance those who were once enlightened—those who have
experienced the good things of heaven and shared in the Holy Spirit,
5 who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the
power of the age to come— and who then turn away from God. It is
impossible to bring such people back to repentance; by rejecting the
Son of God, they themselves are nailing him to the cross once again
and holding him up to public shame. When the ground soaks up the
falling rain and bears a good crop for the farmer, it has God’s
blessing. But if a field bears thorns and thistles, it is useless.
The farmer will soon condemn that field and burn it."
Through our
Free Will, many of us go our own way, turning our backs on God. The
above passage refers to those who turn away and live life in sin.
They will be condemned at the end of the age and will be liken to
the field that was condemned and burnt.
We all have
sinned, and fallen short of the glory of God, (Romans 3:23) But we
repent, ask God to forgive us and keep to the path that He has set
for us. When we accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as our Savior
through faith and we live as He has taught us, Jesus assures us of
salvation. In ourselves we are not worthy. As to falling short of
the perfection needed to receive eternal life, "No one is
righteous, not even one." - Romans 3:10: We are made righteous
because Jesus died and paid for our sins. Through His gift we are
forgiven for the things that we do through sin, however small,
because in God's perfect heaven, we cannot enter without the
cleansing of the Son, Christ.
How many times
can we renew our faith? As long as we live we can be forgiven and
move forward in our goal which is eternal life. True faith and love
of God endures to the end!
-
CatholicView Staff
"My girlfriend and I
keep breaking up. Can God make
her see I am the one for her?" - Dave
CatholicView
staff:
My girlfriend
and I have been fighting to the point where she breaks up with me
and gives me one more chance to sort it and I still mess it up.
Now we have gotten to the point where she says she doesn't love me
anymore and wants it to be over but has given me one week to see
what happens. I have prayed to God everyday to help put us on the
right track and make us strong again but I don't think He is
helping. Will He make her see I am the one for her and she will stay
with me? - Dave
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Dave:
I am sorry to
learn of your constant breakups with your girlfriend. Even though
you say you are the reason for your girlfriend's discontent, you
continue to behave in a way that she does not like. If you love
this girl, why do you continue to do the things that are upsetting
to her?
Sadly, we
cannot make someone love us if they do not. Your girlfriend has
given you many chances to straighten yourself out and it is fair to
say that she has tired of your actions. Give her a chance to see
you have changed. If she does not want to be with you, then you
cannot force the issue. Many things that we might want or desire
may not be what God intends for us
Keep Praying.
If God wants her to be with you, it will happen. If not, trust that
God has something greater in mind for you that you cannot not see
right now.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I have started reading the bible
and am deeply confused
and troubled. What can I do?" - Zoe
CatholicView
Staff:
I have started
reading the Bible for the first time because I am studying it in
college at the moment. I feel deeply confused and troubled; I don't
feel I understand it at all. Other students in my class say it's
just something "you get or you don't". I don't, but I want to.
What can I do? - Zoe
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Zoe:
Please do not
be troubled when reading the bible. Try praying before you read it,
asking God to give you the understanding you need as you read his
words.
The bible is a
treasury of wisdom that can take a lifetime to uncover. It
encompasses all things known to man, and it is a journey like no
other that is daunting and intimidating at times. But once you have
embarked on it, God will take over to give understanding, clarity,
and meaning to what you are reading.
An important
point you might consider is that the Bible is the inspired work of
God and a vital way to know Him through His words. In those
amazing truths of God’s Word in the bible, we can also find the key
to eternal life...that key is faith and belief in Jesus Christ.
Hope this helps a bit.
-
CatholicView Staff
"Why should I believe
in God? - Heather
CatholicView
Staff:
I have trouble
with the whole faith thing. Why should I believe in God?- Heather
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Dear Heather:
You may want to
read an article posted by the Catholic News Agency which
reads in part this way:
"This is surely
a fundamental question that nearly all humans have pondered with
throughout human history. The vast array of religions are a
testimony to the human tendency to grasp at the divine. This in
itself is perhaps the strongest testimony to God’s existence. It can
be said that all humans have an innate desire; an emptiness that
they feel must be filled. The human quest for power, riches, sensual
pleasure, security, fame and indulgence in natural pleasures is a
response to the heartfelt desire for a higher goodness. Temporal
pleasures and even natural love is often transitory and ultimately
unfulfilling. As humans indulge in their passions their desires
continue to go unfulfilled. Many attempt to fill the void with
increasing worldly pleasures with little results.
Such powerful
and elusive desires are a cry from the soul which seeks something
that can not be gratified by the things of this world. For the
moment we will consider discontent of the heart as a mark of God
calling us to embrace him.
But I demand
physical proof!
St. Thomas
Aquinas proposed five proofs in which humans can use natural reason
to prove the existence of God through extrinsic evidence. Through
the use of natural reason we can logically conclude in the existence
of God. Yet strictly speaking, God’s existence cannot be
definitively proven through laboratory tests and experimental
science. Not all things are subject to experimental science. It is
illogical to say, "If I can not see, taste, touch, feel or hear
something it must not exist!" Reason and extrinsic evidence must
also be considered. Experimental science and intrinsic evidence
cannot definitively prove historical events, and yet by reason we
know they have occurred. And surely were science falters and
extrinsic evidence fail, reason and intrinsic evidence can prove the
spiritual which can not be measured by material sciences. "To
continue this article with St. Aquinas's five proofs use this link:
Apologetics:
Why Believe in God? ::
Catholic News
Agency (CNA)
Please pray and
ask God to come into your heart. He will hear your prayer and He
will answer. Will you take a minute and do this? May the Lord
continue to bless you with understanding in your search for truth.
-
CatholicView Staff
"Why is infertility not considered
grounds for divorce and
annulment?" - Pam
CatholicView
Staff:
Why is
infertility not considered grounds for divorce and annulment in the
Catholic Church? Thanks for your time. - Pam
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Pam:
Infertility is
not a reason for divorce. And Infertility
does not make a marriage invalid. It is something that cannot be
known beforehand or that was planned. The Church's only requisite
is that the couple should be open to the possibility of conceiving
new life. Whether or not this happens is up to God.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I am in failing health and cannot
attend mass. Can I watch mass
online in place of going?" - Elizabeth
CatholicView
Staff:
I am unable to
attend mass because of failing health. Can I watch mass online in
place of going? I miss not receiving communion. Thank you. -
Elizabeth
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Elizabeth:
I am sorry to
hear of your failing health. There is nothing wrong with watching
mass on television, and perhaps if you are able to, read the bible.
My suggestion
to you is that you call your parish and ask them to send a
Minister of the Eucharist to bring communion to your home. The
Ministers of the Eucharist can also read the gospels to you and
discuss the homily in your home.
Please call the
Church nearest you and they send someone to you with communion. It
is an excellent way to share with another person the beauty of the
mass followed by the Sacrament of the Eucharist. God bless you.
-
CatholicView Staff
"My sins are
so great. Will God forgive me?" - Amy
Dear
CatholicView Staff:
I'm writing
because I used to be a very devout Catholic. However, during a
difficult period in my life I tuned to some questionable behavior
that I'm really ashamed of (dealings with the occult, etc.) I want
to go to Confession but am terrified. Will the priest tell me that I
cannot be forgiven because my sins were so great? - Amy
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Amy:
I am pleased
that you want to return to the Church. Please do not be afraid to
ask God for forgiveness. No matter how big the sin, no matter the
questionable behavior, you can always bring everything you have done
before God in prayer and He will forgive you if you are truly
repentant and promise never to repeat these sins again. Jesus died
on the cross for your sins and is the key to the forgiveness you
seek from the Father.
God is a God of
second chances as long as you have life within you. He waits for
you to come and get His forgiveness through confession. I ask that
you pray sincerely after you read this, asking God to forgive you
through the name of Jesus Christ, your Savior. Then you must make
an appointment to see your parish priest as soon as possible for
confession and reconciliation to the Church. Do not be afraid to go
for your soul depends on this. The priest will listen and ask you
to do some form of penance.
Again, there is
nothing to be afraid of. Once you have taken care of the past, it
will be time to look to the future with hope and strong faith in
Jesus Christ. God bless you.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I have been
out of work for a year. I have a wife and two children.
I am desperate. What can I do?"- Giovanni
CatholicView
Staff:
I've been more
than one year out of work, and have been to more than 60 interviews
and was not employed. I have a wife and 2 kids and I am a devoted
Catholic, praying to Jesus, Mother Mary, Saint Padre Pio,
St-Brother Andre, and many more and no intercession. It's getting
desperate. - Giovanni
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Giovanni:
I am saddened
to hear that you cannot find work to support your wonderful family.
With this economy, it is very hard to get employment. But please do
not stop praying. Keep talking to God, using the name of the Son,
Jesus Christ Who tells us that anything we have need of to pray
using His name. (John15:16).
I will say a
prayer for you too, asking that the Lord will bless you soon with a
job. Keep in mind that though things look bleak, our God can make
a way for you when there seems to be no way. This is what I am
praying for you.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I want to
become Catholic but my priest is delaying my
annulment." What should I do?" Susan
CatholicView
Staff:
I am in RCIA,
and my husband and I both need annulments. I sent for all the
necessary documents and gave the priest a draft of my husband's
answers (I only need to prove my ex-husband was Catholic), but when
I gave the priest the draft, he said something to the effect of, "It
may take me a long time to get to this." It has now been two
months, and I have not heard from him. I recently learned that this
same priest helped the other annulment-needing couple in RCIA to
complete and submit their applications. I asked a parish deacon if
he could help me, but he said this priest does not allow deacons to
assist with annulments. I really, really want to join the Catholic
Church, but for whatever reason this priest isn't helping me. What
should I do? Thank you very much.- Susan
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Dear Susan:
I don't know
the details of your annulment. Perhaps yours may be more
complicated than the couple in your RCIA class who got theirs
early. Yours may require getting more information from sources
that are slow in sending it to your priest. Each case is
different. Of course this is frustrating but I can only say be
patient.
You also can
make an appointment with your priest and ask why it is taking so
long for your annulment papers. Get an update on your situation.
Here's praying that you get closure on this matter as soon as
possible. May the Lord bless you always.
-
CatholicView Staff