JULY/AUG 2014
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FATHER KEVIN BATES, SM
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FATHER KEVIN BATES, SM
"I have
a fear of hell. Is it wrong to get deep in the
faith because of the fear of hell?" - John
Father Kevin:
I
have a fear of hell in that I do not want to be burning. That is why
I trying to be good person by going to mass a few times during the
week and reading the bible now. I still love God and my neighbor. Is
it wrong to get deep in the faith because of the fear of hell. I'm
66 years old, retired and think about things like that. I hope at my
age it is not to late to get into the faith. - John
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Hi John:
We’re
right to be afraid of the thought of hell. If we allow our focus to
be on God’s loving kindness, then the whole equation shifts and we
hardly ever need to think of hell. If we treat God as our dearest
friend rather than a judge, then we’ll probably sleep better.
Jesus’ great prayer that we might be one as He and the Father are
one reveals His passion for us to find peace and life. I think we
can trust Him in that. Every blessing. - Father Kevin
"Is it a sin to not ask for healing or prayer
because you want to suffer?" - Michelle
Father Kevin:
Is it a sin NOT to ask for healing or prayer if you are sick,
because you wish to suffer instead of heal? - Michelle
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Hi
Michelle:
Thanks
for your question. There is no obligation on us to pray for healing
when we are unwell, though it is a natural thing to be doing. The
troubling question is why you wish to suffer. Is it to try to earn
forgiveness for past wrong committed by you or someone else? Is it
because you have a low opinion of yourself as see yourself as only
worthy of punishment?
Whatever
the case, you are loved by God whether you like it or not. You are
loved by God just as you are. Your wish to suffer could be seen as
throwing God’s healing touch back in His face. It could be seen as
you rejecting the gift of life with which God has entrusted you. It
could be simply the result of some health condition that prevents
you from longing for healing.
It is
certainly not a sin not to ask for healing. However, it certainly
leaves you with some important questions to explore. Every
blessing. - Father Kevin
"When a Catholic death occurs is a rosary and
funeral mass required?" - James
Father Kevin:
In
regards to a Catholic death, is a rosary and funeral mass required?
When I die I just want to be buried with no services at all. Is that
possible? - James
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James:
There
are no obligations around the matters you mention. A Requiem Mass
is the normal gift the Church offers to someone who has died and
their family. If you do not wish to have that gift, there is no
obligation whatever. It’s your funeral! Therefore it should be
shaped according to your wishes.
Every
blessing. - Father Kevin
PRIEST STAFF
"When the Pope calls for international support of the
Christians
being massacred in Iraq, does he condone
violence for the "greater good" - Eamonn
Father:
When the Pope
calls for international support of the Christians being massacred in
Iraq, does he condone violence for the "greater good" of those
people and the world? Is it ok for us to send these people to hell
where they are set to go? - Eamonn
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Eamonn:
Only God can judge
anyone and only God can send someone to hell, or rather, that
person's life decisions will send that person to hell. So, we
cannot send anyone to hell. That is between God and that particular
person. But I will say this: the murderers of the Iraqi and
Kurdish people, those conscienceless killers of our fellow
Christians in Syria and Iraq will be held accountable by God.
And in the book of Revelation in the New Testament, there is a fiery
pit that is forever awaiting them.
Those who kill innocent
people are making new saints and martyrs. But who will speak for
these innocent people now in this time and place?
Pope Francis did NOT
advocate violence when he called on all nations to help these
defenseless non-Muslims, Christians, and Jews from these evil and
death-loving squads of killers who use religion and invoke God to
justify the shedding of innocent blood. He has asked that all
nations do whatever is necessary, to use every available tool in
their control to save these people who cry out for help to God. And
God will use as His instruments leaders and countries to help them.
Pope Francis, I repeat, has not called for violence. But what other
nations do, that is their discretionary decisions which may include
violence.
The principle of
self-defense has always been part of the Church's teaching in
regards to the protection of people and individuals who have done
nothing wrong. If nations see that their own people are in danger
of destruction, then war is inevitable as an act of self-defense. I
do see this principle of self-defense to be used in this particular
situation. God will hear the cries of the poor and persecuted. He
will come to their assistance. And He will call upon nations and
leaders of the world to do His Will in this regard.
I would like to suggest
to all Christians to help our fellow Christians by writing to your
politicians and leaders and tell them about what is happening to our
fellow Catholics and Christians, as well as non-Muslims and Jews, in
Syria and Iraq and how they need their intervention now. And I also
suggest that we gather together in prayer circles to bind Satan and
his minions by the blood of Christ to help our fellow human beings
in that war-torn part of the world.
Prayer is a powerful weapon in our faith arsenal. It is time to use
that weapon against evil now.
- Father Cervantes
"I've been
asked to translate a romantic homosexual
story. How bad is it to accept this commission?"
Marisol
Father Cervantes:
As a
professional translator I've been asked to translate a romantic
book. It's a romantic homosexual story between two characters who
are very obviously not Christian and while there are no sex scenes
whatsoever the book shows them living together as a committed
couple. The story is in fact very sweet. Just how bad would be for
me to accept this commission? - Marisol
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Marisol:
Always be true to your Christian principles in regards to any job
that you take. But I see no problem in accepting a translating job
for this book.
God bless you. - Father Cervantes
My friend sees black shadows at night with one
trying to choke him. What can he do to protect
himself?" - Paul
Father:
This is
sincere, my friend is not on medications and is mentally sound. He
is now terrified and can’t sleep at night. He said he had seen black
shadows in his last apartment and said that one tried to choke him.
This is serious, there is nothing wrong with him and I am terrified
for him. What can he do to protect himself from this, what should he
do? I know he isn’t sleeping and is terrified for his life. - Paul
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Paul:
I must tell you that these apparitions may come from a mental or
emotional illness or problems, or it may be a physical problem in
the brain. It may be that he is filled with anxiety or may be
battling clinical depression that causes the problems with
sleeping. He must see a doctor to rule out anything that is
physical or may have a medical explanation. So, my first important
advice is to seek medical advice. I tell you this because what you
described is something a fellow priest in my diocese had and it
turned out to be a tumor in his brain that was benign but it was the
cause of hallucinations and his inability to sleep. Ruling out all
medical explanations, then we can move on to the possibility that
your friend is battling something spiritual and evil. The best
advice you can give your friend is to see a doctor immediately and
find out the physical cause of this problem. In the meantime,
please forward this prayer to your friend to that it may bring him
peace:
"The light of God
surrounds me, the love of God enfolds me, the power of God protects
me, the presence of God watches over me. Wherever I am, God is.
And where God is, all is well. I cover myself and everyone around
me with the blood of Christ. In the Name of Jesus Christ, by the
power of His blood, I break off every power of the kingdom of
darkness. I call forth, in the Name of Jesus, God's protective
force around me. As for me and my house, I shall serve the Lord.
Satan, the blood of Christ is against you and you have no authority
over my life. No weapon formed against me shall prosper for the
Holy Spirit of God surrounds me. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen."
God bless you
for trying to help your friend during this time, - Father
Francisco
"Why was the feast of St. Peter and Paul celebrated
on Sunday, a day supposed to be only given
to God?" Christopher
Dear Father:
Why was the feast of St. Peter and Paul celebrated today on Sunday
when Sunday is supposed to be only given to God. This also happens
for St John the Baptist. At the same time when Mary's feast day eg.
Immaculate Conception falls on a Sunday, the feast is moved to
Monday? - Christopher
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Christopher:
There are certain feasts that are classified as solemnities and that
means that these special days rank as a Sunday. So, if one of these
solemnities falls on a Sunday, then it is celebrated on that
Sunday. If the feast of the Immaculate Conception (December 8th)
falls on the Second Sunday of Advent, then the feast of
the Immaculate Conception is celebrated on that Sunday. I have
never celebrated the feast of the Immaculate Conception on any day
other than December 8th. It is never transferred to a Monday if it
falls on a Sunday. At least, not in my diocese. Nor in the
Archdiocese (Patriarchal See) of Rome. Every day is given to God.
Each Mass, each day, each hour is given ONLY to God in Church.
There are days when we thank God for the witnesses of certain
foundational apostles such as Peter and Paul, and the Mother of
Jesus Christ. Saint John the Baptist is a foundational saint of the
whole Christian Church. But all praise is given to God for His
creations and His gifts as expressed through these foundational
saints. God is NEVER replaced by our honoring our Christian heroes,
the saints. On the contrary, God is the center of our praise and
our gratitude as we honor and remember these important and
foundational witnesses to Jesus Christ and His gospel. God bless
you.
- Father Francisco
"Can a Requiem Mass be said for someone
already buried?" - John
Father:
Can a Requiem
Mass be said for someone who is already buried? - John
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John:
Yes, a "requiem Mass" can be said for any person who has died even
if the deceased is already buried. Masses said without a body
present is usually called a "memorial Mass." But nonetheless, the
prayers for a funeral Mass is always said whether the deceased
remains are present or not. -
Father Cervantes
"Although I
have a MBA and tried for a good life
it did not happen. Is this God's will?" - Trudra
Father Francisco:
Is this God's
will ? Pre MBA (Master of Business Administration), had stable
well paid jobs- cashed in pension and everything to pay for mba
-post mba for 20 years had contracts, moved countries 4 times -- had
many jobs only hand to mouth jobs - door to door market research and
call centres have lasted more than a few months- no savings no
pension.. hard worker, honest, do the right thing and just so worn
and without much ---tried everything for better life and been taken
advantage of/out of the blue horrendous stuff - very different life
than pre mba - more experienced and more educated and never given up
trying for better but never materializing - is this God's will ? As
it does not make sense. - Trudra
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Truda:
I want to congratulate you on the accomplishment of your Master of
Business Administration degree 20 years ago! It shows that you are
a disciplined person with great intelligence and drive! You are
blest to have such talent. As to why things haven't worked out
as you thought and planned has to do with your own decision making
process and circumstances beyond your control. God's Will in this
case is that you fulfill your destiny and use your talents,
intelligence, personal discipline, focus and energy on making the
world a better place. The focus that you had in your varied career
path has always been focused on
your
personal success and financial achievements without thinking about
how to make the world better around you. God's Will for you is to
succeed and to bring others with you to success and financial
achievements! So, instead of just focusing on your own personal
achievements, think in a bigger way on how your talents and
education can benefit those around you. The failures that you have
experienced come from your decisions and actions mixed with
circumstances beyond your control. Don't blame God. Look at
yourself and see what you can do change your attitude, behaviors,
and open your mind and heart to a bigger picture on how you can use
your immense talents to build God's kingdom here on earth.
- Father Francisco
"My family
did not respect me and made me feel
unworthy. I've decided to leave them and move
away and I need confirmation from the
bible." Joanne
Father Francisco:
My family have
always treated me with little respect and made me feel unworthy.
For example, when I speak, my opinion is irrelevant. For years, I
believed I was worthless and I didn't matter and would put
everyone's needs before my own. This psychological damage lead me to
an abusive relationship with a guy. Realizing that I needed to
escape this relationship, my family decided it was necessary to
attend to his needs, taking precedence over my needs. Having my
family's support, the abuse from the boy worsened. After weeks of
pleading and begging my family, they cut off ties with him. I moved
out of my parents' house after this, and believed this would resolve
the distance I needed to keep between me and my family members for
our relationship to work. I was wrong. They still manage to find
ways to take advantage of me, such as assuming my time is invaluable
by expecting things of me without asking beforehand or even asking
at all. When I attempt to explain that I don't mind helping them,
but I need to be asked in advance or aware of the situation at all,
they imply how wrong I am and selfish. Eventually, it escalates to
an argument. I'm so hurt by them, more than words could express.
I've decided to move across the country and divorce them. Now to be
clear, I'm extremely close with my little sister who is the only one
I choose to maintain a relationship with. Moving across country
isn't specifically just to get away, but also for other reasons of
my own. However, the thought terrifies me of being alone and I
wonder if this is what comes with divorcing your family. I need
confirmation from the Bible that my decision is ok in the eyes of
God. I am heartbroken for this loss but I've exhausted all other
efforts. I believe the time has come to start thinking of my
needs. As I write this, tears are streaming down my cheeks.
Though, I love my family, the pain they inflict will never be
acknowledged by them and I will never be viewed as a valuable human
being or family member in their eyes. - Joanne
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Joanne:
I am sorry to hear that you have suffered so much in regards to your
family relationships. You have tried to explain in your own way
what the needs of your heart are. But you have been met with a wall
of non-acceptance. Sadly, you cannot divorce your family in a real
way. You can separate yourself from them, but you carry their
blood, DNA, and family cultural ways with you for the rest of your
earthly life. Your decision in this means that you will no longer
have the banter that comes with being in contact with your family.
But this banter was unhealthy for you and destroyed your sense that
God loves you as you are and that God calls you to spiritual
maturity. As long as you feel that your family's banter is
destructive, you could not grow in Jesus Christ and your soul could
not grow in wisdom and peace.
It is time to begin anew and far away from this toxic atmosphere.
You say that you want a scripture passage to affirm that the
decision to break all family ties except for your little sister is
something "good." Scripture picking is not a good way to use the
Word of God to affirm your decisions to separate from your family.
Instead, you must be secure that the decision that you make to
separate from your family is the best for your spiritual peace and
maturity. So, be strong. A new chapter in your life is beginning,
a chapter of healing, spiritual growth, Christian adulthood, and in
time, the ability to return to your family even stronger and no
longer dependent on their affirmation of you. Instead you will
return to visit your family and no longer be the timid and fearful
child that left but instead be a strong Christian adult secure in
knowing that God loves you no matter what! And you won't be looking
for your family's affirmation because you will know that you are
loved by God and by your very self.
With that kind of security that comes from your relationship with
Jesus Christ, you can overcome anything. Guaranteed! God believes
in you. Now, believe in His Love for you. Talking about spiritual
maturity, there is a New Testament verse that may apply to your
situation: look up the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 9:57-62 --
And
another said to Jesus, "I will follow you, lord, but first let me
say farewell to my family at home." To him, Jesus said, "No one who
sets a hand to the plow and looks to what was left behind is fit for
the kingdom of God." The
message is clear for you: time to leave your family, not looking
back, and grow up in Jesus Christ. Only then can you return to your
family healed and made whole by the Holy Spirit. - May the every
lasting love of God be always with you. -
Father Francisco
"I am in the military and want to do my 1st communion
and confirmation and have a church wedding.
Please help?" - Raphael
Father Francisco:
I have a question. I was wondering if I can do my
first communion and confirmation quick? I am in the military and I
would like to get married by church before I leave on deployment
which is early October. Please help. - Raphael
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Raphael:
I congratulate you on your decision to marry. But getting things
ready before October (it is the end of August as I write this) for a
sacramental Church wedding would be difficult. And I would be
concerned that you want to marry so quickly under the stress of your
deployment. With my own concerns about the timing and preparation
for a sacramental marriage, I would like you to know that you don't
need your first communion and confirmation to have your marriage in
the church. As long as your fiancée is a practicing Catholic, you
can get married in the Church. Please talk to your military
Catholic chaplain immediately and don't waste any time. The
preparation time is too short. He will advise you.
Again Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! - Father
Francisco"
I have tried to do everything right but still my life is
down the toilet. What should I have done?"
Hugo
Father Cervantes:
I have attended mass all my life, gone to confession, abstained from
sex, achieved highest academic honours, ran my own company, kept
myself physically fit, prayed constantly, and still my life is down
the toilet. I am currently penniless and living with my parents.
Should I have done something differently? Many thanks and best
regards. - Hugo
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Hugo:
For some reason, your question reminded me of the New Testament
gospel story about the Rich Man (please read this NOW -- Mark
10:17-31). Your relationship with Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior
must go BEYOND the sacramental basics of Mass, confession, and the
spiritual disciplines of celibacy and praying specific written
prayers. The Lord is calling you to grow up in Him who gives you
everything that you need and more. Instead of trying to impress God
with your actions to receive worldly success, it is time to be a
mature Christian and grow up from childish things and ideas and be
an adult Catholic. When you say that you have done all these
things, Jesus appreciates your faith BUT He wants your heart and
soul. Once you give Him your heart and soul and everything you are,
then good things will come to you to help you fulfill your God-given
destiny. Once you do these holy actions simply out of love and not
expecting anything in return, you will then see God's many blessings
and move on to your future.....and move out of your parents' house!
- Father Cervantes
"I promised God to give something up if my wife could
live longer. She died much shorter. Do I have
to keep that promise?" Abi
Father Francisco:
I promised God
that I would give something up if He granted my sick spouse extend
life beyond what the doctors predicted. However, my spouse passed
in a much shorter time that predicted. Would I be wrong to no longer
keep that promise? - Abi
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Abi:
I don't know what your promise is. But I want to make something
clear to everyone who is reading this around the world. Do not
promise God anything other than your complete fidelity and love.
What can you give to God that He doesn't already have (other than
YOU, your soul, heart, love)? What is this spiritually immature
idea of making a promise to God to somehow bribe God to answer
your prayer when God has everything because He made everything. If
you promise God to do something, as you say, "give up something," I
presume that giving this "something" must be something that you can
live without and may even stand in the way of a complete
relationship with Jesus as your Lord and Savior. So, if you
promised to give it up, then give it up. You don't need it. The
promise you made isn't for God. He doesn't need it. He does all
things in accordance with His Will! The promise you made is really
for yourself. Promises made to God are to be seen as your personal
spiritual discipline to become a better and stronger follower of
Christ. I am sorry to hear of your wife's passing. She is free
from her illness and rests forever in the Arms of our Lord
forever. Your wife will be at the gates of heaven when, according
to God's Will, your life's mission will be complete and you too will
enjoy the joys of heaven forever.
- Father Francisco
"Should I
use Gerber Medicare Supplement Insurance
knowing it may be connected to planned parenthood?"
- Patti
Father:
I will soon be
eligible to receive Medicare. Our agent recommended the Gerber
Medicare Supplement Insurance. It sounds like a good plan and my
husband and I are happy with it. I am somewhat scrupulous however,
and asked the agent if the Gerber company was in any way associated
with Planned Parenthood. He said, "Not to my knowledge." I have
looked online at many lists which show companies associated with
PP. I found one that mentioned Gerber foods, but the other lists
did not mention Gerber or Nestle which is the company that owns
Gerber. Is it wrong to use this company if I should find out that it
does have some connection with PP? Thank you. - Patti
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Patti:
Planned Parenthood in the United States of America is a non-profit
group that helps many with basic parental and family needs, and
medical services. I admire the good they do. I also admonish them
and challenge them to give up their abortion medical procedures in
all its forms. Gerber Foods is associated with Planned Parenthood
because they give and donate baby food to the needy families that
come to Planned Parenthood for help, a extremely good thing. The
old adage, "don't throw out the baby with the bath water" holds true
here. Planned Parenthood provides an invaluable service to many,
and I have seen that good with my own eyes. It also provides
abortion services which is against everything we stand for. Your
medical insurance does not provide anything to Planned Parenthood
unless you actually use Planned Parenthood medical services and your
insurance covers such claims from Planned Parenthood. It is up to
you whether you will use Planned Parenthood services and charge your
insurance company. Since you are not young parents, nor will use
their family services, that means that your supplemental insurance
will give nothing on your behalf to Planned Parenthood. Be at
peace. Enjoy your golden years. And praise God each day for your
many blessings.
- Father Francisco
"Is the Westboro Baptist Church a Christian
Church?" - Daniel
Father:
I have heard it
said that we Catholics no longer consider the Westboro Baptist
Church a "Christian" church. I was wondering if this is a true
statement. - Daniel
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Daniel:
I have not heard this. The Westboro Baptist Church is known for
its hateful and evil campaigns against anyone who does not believe
the way they do, or interpret the scriptures like they do. Their
actions are not Christian at all according to my opinion. But the
Catholic Church has NEVER said anything about the Westboro Baptist
Church. Others in the Catholic Church have criticized their
actions. But the official Catholic Church has said nothing about
whether the Westboro Baptist Church is a true Christian community.
But in this pastor's opinion, you can tell whether a person is a
Christian by the fruits of their faith. The fruits of the Westboro
Baptist Church are so negative that to me (my personal opinion, not
the official Catholic Church teaching) that there can be no doubt
that this particular community espouses and encourages hate -- not
love -- which is not Christian at all. Hope this helps. - Father Cervantes
"My fiancée and I both are Catholic and in a relationship
for 15 years. We split up for three months and she came
back pregnant. Can she receive communion?"
James
Father Francisco:
My fiancée and
I both are Catholic. We split up for about 3 months. She came back
pregnant by her boyfriend. We have been together 15 years and have a 12
yr old child. He wanted her to have an abortion, but we could not do
that. She has since drifted away from the Church. Should I sign the
birth certificate? Does she have to abstain from receiving the
Blessed Sacrament? What is the Church's teaching about step
parents? - James
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James:
Let me see if
I understand this: You have been in a relationship outside of marriage
for 15 years, never married, living in "sin" as they say, and
are raising a 12 year old child that your
fiancée conceived during a three
month separation from you.
And you ask
if SHE should abstain from communion? You both should stop
receiving communion and repent of your sinfulness instead of
pointing the hypocritical finger at your "girlfriend" of 15 years.
You
both have sinned by living together without the benefit of sacramental marriage. You have made decisions against everything that Jesus
taught us in the gospels. You need to have Jesus in your life.
It is time to get back with the Lord.
As to the
"signing of the birth certificate," the "natural" father of the
child should be on the birth certificate. This will make sense later
in life when the child seeks answers that will be important as to
that child's self-identity (and any medical issues that may come up
from the child's father's bloodline). The name of the father should
be on the birth certificate for truth is easier to live with than a
lie.
I know that
you love this child as if he/she came from your bloodline.
And together you both opted not to abort that child. The Lord
sees this. As
for the Church's teaching concerning step-parents, all that is
required is that step-parents (you) always defer to the actual
parents when it comes to the child and respect the parent of the
child even though that parent wanted to abort it.
I am sure that
your girlfriend feels separated from the Church because of the
decisions she has made in the past, including living together
without the sacrament of marriage. Maybe when she is able to live
in complete communion with the Church, she
will
then feel at home in
her spiritual and Christian heritage. Until that time, you both cannot
receive communion until you are sacramentally married in the
Church, or you separate and live apart.
- Father Francisco
"Because of a faulty dental surgery, I must struggle
to maintain an open airway. Why did God allow this
to happen to me? - Laura
Father:
Teeth
extractions and railroad-track-type braces cause sleep apnea (just
do an Internet search and you'll find plenty of formation). That is
because these type of braces are a retroactive force used to close
gaps left by the extractions, which brings your jaw back into your
airway, which is what happened to me when I as 12. I now have 1/4 of
the airway I was born with and have to use a cpap machine. On x-ray,
you can see where the jaw is crashed back into my airway and you can
see that my jawline is behind my ear from the braces, and not in
front of the ear the way God designed. I struggle terribly to keep
an open airway at night. I use sleep on a 10" bed wedge, use very
strong tape to keep air escaping out of my mouth from the cpap, and
use a cervical collar to keep my head upright as much as possible. I
am unable to work because maintaining an open airway all night is
next to impossible due to the extremely small airway I now have. I
am struggling with why God allowed this to happen to me. Do you have
any answers or can you tell me what I need to tell myself to cope
with this for the rest of my life? There's plenty of people on the
Internet trying to warn the public about retraction/extraction
orthodontics. But they continue to do it for profit. Thanks. -
Laura
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Laura:
You certainly have many burdens to carry, especially the burden of
your health. I am so sorry to hear of your physical challenges.
But these are challenges, and you have already overcome some of
those challenges. You are strong and you are a woman of faith and
have the hope in knowing that all this is for a reason. I don't
know the reason of your pain because I cannot see and understand
God's BIG picture of His Will in action. But you are part of His
plan of salvation for the world.
I am reminded of the words of Jesus in the New Testament in the
Gospel of Mark, Chapter 8, Verses 34-38:
"Whoever wishes to come
after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me."
Jesus doesn't want us to "feel sorry" for ourselves. Instead, he
wants us to stand tall, actively carry the cross of our burdens, and
forge ahead. Use your illness and pain in educating others. Use
your pain to make the world a better place by your activism so that
others do not have to suffer needlessly what you have suffered. Ask
the Lord to help you and then ask Him to help you change the world
through your sufferings. God gives meaning to your suffering by
using that suffering for the betterment of others. Now, think.
What can be done to ensure the safety of others? What can you do to
make the world a better and safer place for your family members,
those you care about, and for the human race.
I know that you will leave your positive and loving mark on this
world. That's why we are here! -
Father Francisco
"What does
it mean for Christians to carry the cross of
Christ?" - John
Father Francisco:
What does it
exactly mean for us Christians to carry the cross of Christ? Is
this the same as saying we must carry our crosses?
Thank you, John
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John:
Carry your cross (Mark 8:34-38) is an active statement, not a
passive one. Jesus doesn't want us to get into the habit of feeling
sorry for ourselves. Each of us has a cross to bear, some obvious,
others not so obvious. Yet, if we all felt sorry for ourselves,
nothing would get done. Instead of just loathing in our burdens,
Jesus demands us to stop the whining and get up, and forge forward.
There is no whining in Christianity. There is only hope and the
strength of faith to use our burdens to change the world for Jesus.
- Father
Francisco
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"I have been backsliding from the faith and caught up
in other religions. Did Jesus exist or not?" – Scott
CatholicView:
I have been backsliding from the faith at such a speed that I feel
completely out of control. I have got caught up in other religions
old and new, and know I don't know what to believe. Did Jesus exist
or not, was He the prophesied Messiah or not, divine or not. The
bible fact or fiction leaving me unsure of who I am and what path is
the Way. So I have started with New Testament. I have been reading
and I study Bible one chapter at a time. I know going to Mass is
another way back, what else do I need to do? - Scott
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Scott:
Glory to God! You are now on the
right tract. The main way back is through constant prayer and
reading your bible. Through your prayers, God will send the Holy
Spirit who will make known to you the existence of Jesus Christ.
You WILL know. As you continue to pray you will grow stronger in
the faith and know that Jesus is Son of the living God. This will
come with being open to God's will for you.
As you pray, bring your doubts as to
the reality of Jesus to our heavenly Father in prayer. Feel Him
touch your heart, for prayer is the strongest weapon a Christian
has. Jesus Christ is real.
See your parish priest, tell him
what you feel, ask him to pray with you. Tell the priest that you
want to be reinstated as a believing member of the Church. The fact
that you are writing to CatholicView means you want to know the
truth.
You will know, through prayer, the
reality of God, the Father, and Jesus Christ, His Son, and the Holy
Spirit. Do not let Satan tell you He does not exist. Prayer will
tell you otherwise. Yes, you are on the right tract. Go with God.
- CatholicView Staff
"
When I took my children for the First Communion,
I took communion also and I am not Catholic.
Is this
a sin?" - Jill
CatholicView:
I feel
horrible! I took my children for their first communion and when we
were called up for them to take it I also participated and I am not
Catholic! I had no idea this was a sin...is it a sin? I want to
become Catholic and feel I am now unable to be forgiven. Please tell
me the seriousness? I am so upset with myself. - Jill
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Dear Jill:
Do not feel guilty. Know that the
Lord understands our human failings.
Please do not feel upset. It was an
error and the Lord knows this. You already have been forgiven
because you have realized it was the wrong thing to do. Please
move ahead now with your plans to become a member of our Church.
May the Lord bless and give you peace as you become a full pledged
member with us. Be at peace. God go with you. -
CatholicView Staff
"I pray the
rosary daily but I get distracted.
Please help?" Tony
CatholicView Staff:
I pray the rosary daily since four years. It changed a lot my life
but I am still scared that this is not enough to be saved. My big
concern is that I am not meditating while praying because I get
distracted very easily, like if I am just reciting the rosary. I am
scared that all my prayers went in vain. Please help. - Tony
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Dear Tony:
Please know
that God hears all prayers. And He can see beyond your
distractions into your heart if you are sincere when you pray.
I am going to
suggest that you pray what you feel. Sit quietly, without
distractions and tell the Lord about your worries. Know that He,
through love for you, is listening. Tell Him how you feel and talk
to Him about your concerns of not being saved, such as you wrote in
this email.
A prayer does
not have to be fancy because God already knows all things. Just
tell what you feel and ask Him to give you His peace. Tell Him
everything. He will listen and you will feel His peace descend on
you through the Holy Spirit Who lives within you.
Know that God
loves you. Know that through faith, belief in God, and living the
way Jesus taught us all, one day you will be welcomed by Almighty
God and our Savior, Jesus Christ into their eternal kingdom. Do not
worry. Be at peace, my friend. - CatholicView Staff
"Do dogs go to Heaven?" - Melissa
CatholicView Staff:
I've been raised in the Church since I was born and I am now 27.
There has been one question that has been killing me inside since I
was a child. I see animals as the most innocent creatures God has
created and I've had many pets which I have loved wholly with the
soul and heart He has given me. When I die, and God willing, I reach
heaven... will the animals I've loved, even the strays which I've
fed and cared for when I can and get the chance. Will they go into
His Glory? Or do God's simplest and most innocent creatures just
cease to be in His eyes? This has been tearing my soul apart. I
pray for human beings as well as animals, for their happiness, the
strength to surpass their suffering, for their well-being, etc. Is
it useless of me to pray for animals and believing they have souls?
St. Francis of Assisi talked to them (which brings me solace), and
there are blessing ceremonies for them. Will they go to Him in the
end? Thank you, Melissa
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Melissa:
This
is a question that many people ask. The concern for their loving
pets is great and there is always sadness when that pet dies. The
most honest answer to your question is that we don’t know.
Our
dogs, for example, give us love. Even if we accidently step on
their little feet, they yelp and run back to us with forgiveness and
love. When we are saddened by something, they seem to understand
and will comfort us by staying close. Some will give a sloppy
kiss. And yet only human beings have souls.
Father Amaro Saumell wrote this answer in CatholicView:
"No one
knows if pets go to heaven or not. If not, you know that you
provided “heaven” for his/her little lifespan. But if there is going
to be a new heaven and new earth, who knows? The scriptures don’t
address this. Most likely because it has nothing to do with our
salvation. What does have to do with our salvation is your
gentleness that you’ve shown a poor animal. So, if our reward is
great in heaven, there’s surely the possibility.
Melissa, I hope this helps you a bit. May the Lord give you peace.
-
CatholicView Staff
"I asked for a sign about a project I was doing and got it.
Why would God approve this project and let it fail?" Nora
CatholicView:
I am in trouble so I hope you can help. I (with the intention of
doing right by God) asked for a sign - something unmistakable and
almost impossible and if I was to receive it I would continue on a
project I had started because I knew then that it would have been
approved by God himself. He gave me that sign at the very time and
place in exactly the fashion I asked for it so I continued on the
project. I was then plunged into the worst time of my life as a
result of that project and now don’t know how to get myself out of
it. It has been truly awful and affected my family. Someone once
told me if something brings you closer to God it is a blessing, if
it pulls you away it is a punishment. since I got that sign I have
made such change in my life to please God (I was not perfect in any
way but I tried harder than ever for him) and I just don’t
understand why he would give me the green light and make me suffer
so badly. I would have long left this project by now if it wasn't
for God and lived a much easier life but I have persevered for him.
The real question now is do I still continue along this path out of
faith or abandon it? I feel like if he blessed me with such a sign
that brought me closer to him I cannot abandon it as it would be as
though I rejected him. or do I keep suffering and plodding along
until He ends it? Please help. Thanks - Nora
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Nora:
God does not
work the way you describe. When we ask God to help us to decide to
do something through prayer, we must always know that whatever it is
that we ask Him to do, it has to be His Will, not ours. Sometimes,
like a loving parent we say no to a child who asks for a specific
toy, because we know this toy may be detrimental to that child.
Many times God
does say "No" to us. Why? Because whatever we ask may not be good
or right for us. Although you say that He gave His approval, how
did you know He did?
What I would
suggest is that you pray again about this, asking the Lord to guide
you. Pray that HIS Will be done, not yours. - CatholicView
Staff
“Is it
appropriate for a parishioner to donate a
6 feet crucifix to his/her parish anonymously?
- Gine
Father:
Is it
appropriate for a parishioner to donate a 6 feet crucifix to his/her
parish anonymously to replace a risen Christ. The goal is to have it
delivered as a gift. Thank you. - Gine
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Gine:
What a generous
gift! I think, however, that it would be wise and appropriate to
ask your pastor beforehand if such a wonderful gift will be
accepted. To have it delivered without notification to the heads of
the Church might prove embarrassing if they could not use your most
generous offering.
Please ask your
pastor if the Church is in need of your crucifix first, then take it
from there. May the Lord bless you greatly for your special
kindness and thoughtfulness on your part. - CatholicView
Staff
“My Catholic
sister is now involved in the New
Age Movement. Am I sinning by not pointing
out her wrongs?” - Claire
CatholicView Staff:
My sister was
baptized as Catholic but has been involved in New Age movement for
years. We argue if I talk about my faith. Am I committing a
serious sin by not clearly pointing out to her the wrongs of what
she is doing? – Claire
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Claire:
It is admirable
that you try to bring your sister back to the faith. But sometimes
that person becomes adamant about what you are trying to do. You
must pray and ask the Lord to work within her, pray that she will
see how far she has strayed.
Be an example.
Let her see your faithful journey. Please keep praying and never
tire. The God you serve will touch her heart and bring her
back one day. May God strengthen you in this. Here is a short
prayer that you might pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
in your Precious Name, I pray for the strengthening of my sister in
her faith and for her return to your blessed Church. Bring her
home, Lord. Soften her
heart, dear God, for she has strayed from the road which You
established for her salvation. Re-strengthen her
faith, and open her eyes to the path she must take. Return her to
Your loving fold. I ask this through the mighty name of Your Son,
Jesus Christ. – Amen
Keep praying
and watch what the Lord can do. – CatholicView Staff
“As a Catholic, is it a sin to attend a wedding
in a church that is not Catholic?” - Keith
CatholicView:
Is it a sin in
the Catholic Church to attend a wedding that that is not in a
Catholic Church but in another Church of a Christian religion? -
Keith
___________________________________
Keith:
It is not a sin
to attend a wedding in a non-Catholic Church. Pray for
the couple and enjoy yourselves. Thanks for your question. -
CatholicView Staff
“I work in
an office where the radio plays loud
music that goes against my Catholic spirituality.
Should I leave this job?” - Margaret
CatholicView
Staff:
I just switched jobs and the office where I am working plays the
radio through the speaker system throughout the building. The type
of music goes against my Catholic spirituality. I asked them if I
could have an office I can close the door or if they can at least
mute the speaker outside the area I am. Well they tried but I can
still hear it. Should I leave here? - Margaret
________________________________
Margaret:
I am sorry that
you are finding the music offensive at your work place. Is there a
possibility that you could perhaps change your office to yet another
location? I am concerned because jobs are hard to find. But if
you are strong in your decision, having found an intolerance to the
music, then you should leave.
Please think and pray about this. Ask the Lord to direct you in
your decision. May the Lord always be with you and give you peace.
- CatholicView Staff
“I am a
baptized Catholic but have been attending
Anglican Eucharist services. My friends say I am
excommunicated. Is this true?” - Alvin
CatholicView
Staff:
I was baptized when I was a baby and received first communion in the
Roman Catholic Church when I was 10 years old. However, I have been
attending Anglican Eucharist services since last year and some
friends told me that I have been indirectly excommunicated by the
Roman Catholic Church for my involvement in the Anglican Eucharist
services. Nevertheless, I have not received Confirmation or Chrism
in the Anglican Church as it is the requirement for becoming a
formal member of the Anglican Church.
My questions are my friends correct in saying such statement? Could
I still join the Catholic Mass and receive communion in the Roman
Catholic Church? Yours faithfully, Alvin Prima
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Alvin:
To attend an
Anglican Church and perhaps receive communion there for at least a
year means you are considering becoming part of that Church. It is true that Roman Catholics may attend Mass at an
Anglican Church for special events, (social obligations, special
events, seeking to learn about their beliefs/practices, etc), but
never as a substitute for Roman Catholic worship. And you must not
receive the Eucharist there.
Attending the Anglican Church does not in any way fulfill your
Sunday Mass obligation at the Roman Catholic Church, so you still
need to find and attend a Catholic Mass somewhere on that day. Your
obligation is with the Roman Catholic Church. It must never be a
substitute for Roman Catholic worship. I suggest you talk to your
parish priest and discuss this matter. - CatholicView Staff
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