CatholicView: .
How
can a loving, merciful Creator send one of His creations to an
eternity in everlasting flame and suffering?
I could never do that
for a child of mine. Maybe a spanking or some temporary punishment
but for all eternity?
How can I love and respect such
a God? - Jhea
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Jhea:
God sends no
one to hell for all eternity. On the contrary, we send ourselves by
the decisions we make and
the destiny we FREELY chose. If someone
doesn't want God in their lives, God respects that decision. If a
person wants God in their lives, then all possibilities and heaven
itself is open. So your question is placing
blame on God when in
fact the blame of someone in hell is directly on them. God cannot
make someone love
Him. If a person doesn't want God, then that's
their decision for all eternity.
That's what free will and
self-determination is all about.
You
ask "How can a loving, merciful God send His precious souls to an
everlasting Hell"? I must tell you that
during our lives, and
through the Free Will that God has bestowed on us, we have the great
opportunity to be
obedient to the Lord and what He tells us, but
many follow their own sinful paths. Those who do believe in the
Lord through free will know that through the blood of Jesus Christ,
He has already paid the price of everlasting
life when He died on
the Cross as sinful souls jeered and laughed at our Lord, Jesus
Christ when He was nailed
to that cross.
God
sent Jesus Christ, His Son to die for you and all of us. Why? To
let us know that we are loved. Jesus
came down from Heaven to pay
with His life for you and I and yes, for all of us. He taught us
all about eternal
life and if we accepted and believed, we would be
saved and will live forever. Keep in mind, one day He will
come
back to us, and if we have followed God's teachings, we will enter
our everlasting "home" and live forever
with our Heavenly Father and
Jesus Christ. Imagine this…Forever!
God
does not deny us. All of us are sinners and yes, we are not
perfect, but He still wants us on the road to
eternal life. He loves you and all of us. Why? He cared for us so much that He gives
us time and time again to
change from sin and become believers.
Yes, He loves us so much that He sent His Son to die on a cross for
us.
If we deny God and Jesus and refuse to follow God's path, we
will spend our lives in hell forever more.
Would God forgive us for our sins while on earth? Yes, He does.
And He sends the Holy Spirit to remind us of
those sins. {God,
the Father, God, the Son, and God, the Holy Spirit}.
If
we accept His teachings, we will be saved. If we sin, we must pray,
asking God for His forgiveness. And
when we do, God, Who loves us
so much, will forgive us, and say with that love, "I forgive you and that for-
giveness will be forgotten…as far as the East is from the West.
"Matthew
25:31-46
reads:
"When
the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the angels with Him, He
will
sit on His glorious throne. All the nations will be
gathered before Him, and He will separate the people one
from
another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He
will put the sheep on His right and the
goats on His left. "Then
the King will say to those on His right, 'Come, you who are blessed
by my Father;
take your inheritance, enter the kingdom prepared for
you since the creation of the world.
For I was hungry
and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and
You gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and
you invited Me
in, I needed clothes and you clothed Me, I was sick and you looked
after Me, I was in prison
and you came to visit Me.' "Then
the righteous will answer Him, 'LORD, when did we see you hungry
and
feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When
did we see you a stranger and invite you in,
or needing clothes and
clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go
to visit you?' "Jesus will
reply, 'Truly I tell you,
whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters
of mine, you did
for Me.' "Then He will say to those on
His left, 'Depart from Me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire
prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry
and you gave Me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and
you gave Me
nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not
invite Me in, I needed clothes and you did
not clothe Me, I was sick
and in prison and you did not look after Me.' "They also
will answer, 'LORD, when
did we see You hungry or thirsty or a
stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help
you?'
"He will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you
did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for Me.'
"Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the
righteous to eternal life."
Our Loving
Father is there for you and I, and all of us. Without Him, we are
nothing. Think about that precious
love. - CatholicView
Staff
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"My boyfriend is from Colombia and is not a citizen.
Because it is
his dream, he pursued a sham marriage. It was a civil
paperwork to
gain citizenship.
Does this marriage have to be "annulled" for
him to marry in the
Catholic Church again? Kim
CatholicView:
I am a Catholic and an American living in the U.S. My boyfriend is
from Colombia and he is not a citizen. It's
been his dream to live
in the US, and so he pursued a sham marriage years ago before he met
me, just for
citizenship. He didn't tell me until re-cently that it
happened. It was just a civil paperwork marriage to gain
citizenship, that's it. I know that is wrong, but it happened. Obviously this marriage isn't recognized in the
Catholic Church
and by standards of most religions isn't a marriage at all. They don't communicate or stay
together - never have never will and it
will be terminated soon. Is it still considered adultery if I am in a re-
lationship with him? Does this marriage have to be "annulled"
for him to marry in the Catholic Church again?
Kim
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Kim:
If your boyfriend is a Catholic and from Colombia, he should not
have used this American girl for marriage
in order to live here. As
you say, he pursued this sham marriage years ago just for
citizenship.
Is
your boyfriend is Catholic? If he is, he must talk to a priest
about this situation. To enter a fake marriage
civilly was a wrong thing to do. You are right in that this is not a real marriage and
he encountered this girl not
only illegally, but used her for his
own purpose.
Do you know if this girl cared for your boyfriend? I would suggest
that you both talk to a priest about this sit-
uation. He will want to discuss with you both about this "shammed" marriage. God go with
you.
- CatholicView Staff
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"Do I have to go to confession
at Easter to receive Communion?"
- David
CatholicView:
I
became Catholic at Easter still learning about the faith. Do I have
to go to confession at Easter to receive
communion? I'm
going to Rome next month and I would like to do it there. Thank
you. - David
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David:
The Church especially wants to urge
the faithful to receive the Sacrament of Confession during the time
of
Easter. It is a very special time that Catholics will want to
receive the Sacrament of Confession. Go forth
to Rome and receive
your confession while there. God go with you.
-CatholicView Staff
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"Is it wrong to
pray for the soul of a father that he
may be in Heaven? Is this a sin? Please give me
a prayer for that soul. - Faith
CatholicView:
Is
it wrong to pray for the souls by saying "I pray for the soul
of father that he may be in heaven?" Is
that a sin? Please
give me a prayer for the soul of one person. Thank you, Faith
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Faith:
I
am assuming that you want to pray for many people who need the love
of Almighty God. Praying for
others is precious in the sight of
God. If the person is alive here on earth but needs God's care, you
can
pray for that person and ask God to touch that person's soul.
Here is a prayer:
"Heavenly
Father, help those in need, give strength to the weak, comfort the
sorrowful, pray
for God's people, intercede for those who need His precious love.. May all who need Your
help,
let all people experience
Your unfailing protection. We ask this through the Name of Your
Son,
Jesus Christ. Amen!"
Here is
another:
Almighty
God, please help all those in need, comfort the sorrowful, give them
strength when
they are weak, bless all those who do not know our Heavenly Father. May those who seek You
know your unfailing and precious Love. Amen.
I hope this helps. God be with you always.
- CatholicView
Staff
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF
"My husband and I
married in Civil Court, then married in
the
Catholic
Church. After his affairs I divorced him. He is now in a
nursing home
with Alzheimer.
I want to see him but he would not know me.
What should I do? - Patricia
CatholicView:
I
am a Catholic and I am over 18. In 1960 My husband and I were
married by civil court. In 1963 we were
married in the Catholic
Church. In 1983 I filed for divorce due to his many affairs , we are
still married according
to the church. He is now in a nursing home
with Alzheimer's and although I would like to go to see him, he
would
not know me. I am still his wife.
Could I tell the nursing
home I am still his wife? Thank You For Your time. - Patricia
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Patricia:
It
is honorable that you want to visit your ex-husband who had many
affairs, causing the breakage of your
marriage. I know that our
God Who sees all things is pleased to know that in spite of his
behavior which
caused the marriage breakup, you seriously care about
him.
That you still care for ex-husband shows a wonderful honor that you
not only still care for him, you still feel
the bond of your former
marriage. Please talk to the nurse and explain to her that you
were his wife of
many years and are concerned about his illness. If
necessary, you might want to ask your priest to give
you the papers
to show her.
I
will pray for you that your desire to see your husband will be
granted. May God bless you.
- CatholicView Staff
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